Don't take this the wrong way

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You will be amazed at the variety and depth of conversations that you can have with a shy guy once you get him to open up to you. From tips on flirting with him to kissing him and from advice about the clothes you should wear to giving him a hug, this post gets straight to the point. He might be too shy to come right out and flirt or compliment you or stuff like that. For example, you can just send him a text message that you are really looking forward for the date.

Pay attention to other things, like how he looks at you or how he stands when he's around you. Figure that out and then start talking by bringing up something he likes or something you both like.

He will open up slowly once you start. Compliments will warm anyone up.

Put your hand on his shoulder

Now all my white underwear is pink. Acting like you don't know how to do something to make a guy like you is lame, plain and simple.

So stay away from getting touchy

This time, you need to let him in on how you feel about him. Hold on to your hug for half a few seconds longer than usual so that he feels comfortable with the physical closeness. You will have to wait until your second date or till the time you develop a certain level of comfort with him. It's even more frustrating when people assume your shyness means that you're not interested or just being mean. You should also ask him a lot of open-ended questions to get him talking up a storm.

The solution to this deadlock is simpler than you think. You can do that through flirting, although aggressive flirting may not work with a shy dude. They have everything going for them except an ability to have their way with words. It feels as if I have known you since ages. He is likely to be afraid and will not want to take the risk of being the first one to start flirting.

Put your hand on his shoulder, lean on to him in a friendly way while waiting for cab, give him a high five, tug his cheeks in a playful manner or hug him after your date. So stay away from getting touchy feely on the first date unless you strike an exceptional bond with him straight away. Message him on Facebook or text him if you have his phone number. But in the end, it will probably be totally worth it. However - and this is important - don't play dumb for this.